Dr. Dale’s Journey. Part 4: “THE NOVELTY OF HAVING CANCER has WORN OFF”
For this entry to make sense, first read Dr. Dale’s Journey Part 1: “DIAGNOSIS BLACK,” Dr. Dale’s Journey Part 2: “HEMLOCK” (chemotherapy); Dr. Dale’s Journey Part 3: “FALLOUT” (Radiation).
Dr. Dale didn’t write much during the initial flurry of early treatment other than to credit his many friends and family who’d stepped up with vengeance when he was first diagnosed. He did, however, come up with a poem to honor his intervention radiologist, Dr. Steve Brantley. He sent the poem out with instructions. I think he meant for us to stand as we clapped.
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Dr. Dale: “(All clap with a strong military cadence!)
Dr. Brantley, he’s our man
Needled that cancer
With one gloved hand
I don’t know but I’ve been told
Brantley’s hand
Is solid gold.
. . . It has been awhile since last news. Company tailed off as visitors found me alive but not lively. I found my rut and coasted thru spring without noticing colors or complaining about pollen. So much for my lecture on being alive and vibrant. I forgot I was a candidate to die and thus forgot to do much living. My hair grew back without incident. Decided I like it short with no beard. Loved hats—may be regular part of wardrobe here in winter.”
************************************************************************************************************************************After reading Dr. Dale’s many thank yous at this point in his journey and with his wife at his side (his third, I’ll get to that) I am inspired to ask and write on the question: “Is it more important to connect with someone who believes in the strength of long term relationships or to be with someone who loves you so much?” Thoughts to follow.
