Yesterday, I was flipping through the channels during a Court TV (Tru TV) break and there was Tyra interviewing guests.  Each woman in the audience had a large square of paper taped to the front of her shirt.  The square read, “My True Weght” (or something close).  The idea was that at the end of the show all papers would come off, including Tyra’s, and we’d have a chance to see just how worthwhile each woman was.

   Tyra chants, “One, two, three,” and off they come.  Under the paper?  “SCREW THE SCALES.”

   How great is that?  Just taking women’s number one reason to feel bad and stupid and laughing right in its face.  I’ve never had scales and suggest to the women I see to dump those ridiculous torture machines!

   But, “Oh, oh,” come the frightened cries.      “If a woman doesn’t weigh herself, won’t she lose all control and get fatter and fatter until she’s not worth anything at all anymore?  How will she possibly know what to do?”

      Well . . . NO.  Women are not stupid just because we’ve been brain-washed to believe it’s just real important not to just know what we weigh, it’s flipping critical to know our PERCENTAGE OF BODY FAT.  Now who came up with that one?  Women were actually PAYING to have a DOCTOR      tell us a set of numbers we were supposed to so seriously battle against.

     Hey, we have MIRRORS.  We have CLOTHES.  We can SEE our bodies and, more importantly, we are not such CHILDREN that we DON’T KNOW WHAT IT MEANS when we CAN’T FIT INTO clothes we wore before.

The Emperor Has No Clothes!  We have fallen for our own obsession.  And what hurts, what really, really hurts, is seeing so many wonderful, intelligent, funny, beatiful women convinced they would be better people if they lost weight.  When did butt-size become the measure of a woman?    When did we bow our heads and accept the “INTERNAL TORTURER?”

 The rant shall continue.  Having spent my first years out of graduate school working with eating disorders and the years since working with depression and marriages in trouble –I’m not getting off of this for a while.